So he's going to be casual with you for a while until he meets someone who want one.
When you say something like that, you're not putting off a sexy, I don't care vibe.
Then she wondered why he wouldn't make her his girlfriend.
Look, ladies: if you're going to do this, the dude then knows that he can do whatever he wants and you'll still be there, no matter what. He's a jerk for taking advantage of your feelings, but you also need to stand up for yourself. If he won't sacrifice things for you, dont' sacrifice things for him.
I know it stinks, but it's also very true and happens way too often.
If you're seriously interested in a guy, ask him to go out somewhere the first time instead of agreeing to "watch a movie" with him at home.
you’re pretty sure he likes you and will be asking you to be his girlfriend in the very near future.
The very first night we hung out, I went to his house after work and we hooked up.
You’ve been in this situation before: you meet a guy who is really great.
You guys hit it off, you start hanging out, hooking up…
Our relationship never went any further than a casual hookup situation.
I see this happen practically every day with different people.
Source: Shutter Stock I'll just say it: being too clingy or needy is annoying. One of my guy friends recently was hanging out with a girl he really liked... She wanted to see him every night, text all day long, involve him in major PDA everywhere they went... He felt suffocated and was nervous that things would get worse if they got serious.