The few times he gets up the nerve to approach her, something gets in the way and messes things up. A lot of guys can sympathize, some more than others.
Everyone has their own unique talents and abilities, and the smart person looks for ways to even the playing field and this is your way to do just that.
I was a virgin who had never went on a date or even kissed a girl… I would often imagine asking her out and being her boyfriend, but in reality I could never do it because I was too nervous. Even if I got the sense some girl was interested in me, I was too scared to do anything…
and didn’t know what to talk about with her anyway.
I always have trouble talking to people and, worst of all, this is also holding me back from having a girlfriend.
I haven’t even been on a date in the past x years.” I find this hard to believe, since I spent most of my school years watching the cutest girls go out with the more confident, popular or charismatic guys.
Even though the women is very shy, she still has a boyfriend.