Beat the competition out there and find yourself a lovely lady to tease and please.1) Flirt Flirting is a lost art.Tease her and let her know you are interested but do not, I repeat, do NOT, use any sex talk or innuendo for the first several text messages. I never imagined that hot young guys would think a woman my age is sexy.Then this happened:“How old are you,” I asked.“52.”I laughed.Do this as soon as possible so you can see if there is any chemistry there.
I wasn’t sure where it was going but I loved the feeling I got when he was around.
On Valentine’s Day he found me alone in the office and made a move. He ran his fingers through my hair and said, “I’ll be right back.”I still shiver thinking about how good it felt to have his hands in my hair that first time. I was so ready and hungry for his touch at this point, there was absolutely no resistance.
By this time we had several flirty encounters and I was definitely attracted to him. Like I said, no one had touched me like that in many years. Being at work, there was no way to act on the feelings so nothing happened physically between us for a long time.
He made it clear right from the start that he wanted me to feel good. He didn’t press me at all and took a long time to build that delicious sexual tension that happens with a new partner. It is like a hit from the fountain of youth every time.
Over and over he told me, “You deserve to have this. Once sex happens for the first time, there is a different vibe between partners, whether true love is involved or not. The sex is off the chart and a well-sexed woman is a force to be reckoned with.
(Secret Cub Tip: You want to avoid getting the dreaded, “EWWWW” reaction at all costs).