It’s material that I’ve presented to many young people and their parents over several years.When my now married daughters were teenagers, I honed it further for sharing and discussion with them and the young men who asked to date them.The intentional man repeatedly and constantly goes first and takes on all of the risk of rejection.
He wants you to draw from the reservoir of a solid Christian life, with strong personal accountability to godly men, and from that reservoir to stand strong for Jesus.
It does not require physical contact or even presence.
Men appear to be more easily stimulated than most women. There are many books and movies written about people who made a choice to follow pleasure in lieu of wisdom.
Know what you’re doing and either stick with the plan or go somewhere safe, where you’re in the sight of others (particularly others who respect the need for purity).
You can still have a private conversation even in a room full of people.
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