My rules for first time text are to: Let’s say that you have text this person after the first date or maybe two or three dates and gotten no response.My rule for those who are blown off via text is to NEVER send anything that resembles, or other form of cordiality, it’s lame.It took me about a week to get a new phone and I no longer had his contact information. If he were to contact me again I would appreciate it but I can understand why the chance of that happening is slim to none. Generally in dating when you don’t hear from someone it’s on purpose. When it comes to general calling, if someone has given you their number and you are reaching out to them for the first time you are allowed two initial calls and a follow-up call but absolutely only one voicemail!
Most textual people feel the same way but even texts have a limit.I was dating a guy who was super sweet, right before I lost my cell phone.Communication had been a little dicey due to our incredibly busy schedules.Let’s not assume they dropped their phone in a toilet or had to leave town and left their phone charging on the kitchen counter.Everything is running smoothly, the universe is in working order, you have already called twice, left one message and you have not heard a word back.
This third call is to be absolutely sure that you have covered all bases in trying to reach this potential date.